And truth, the kind of truth that has the power to set free, sometimes comes with no emotion. Like an anchor, it simply holds fast.



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stagtattoo replied to your post “For all that we say that it would take het fans concrete, “in your…”

EXACTLY i love tinhatting i dont even care and i hate how people are so afraid of it

And the thing is tinhatting should not even be a concept, if we believe this to be a real life breathing relationship. You and I we see a small incident and we fill it with background info not available to us, so that is a head cannon. Outside of that we are left with logically inferred material based on a presented situation. Lawyers do it all the time, why is it so wrong for us to do so. genuinelybelieve talked about this, I can’t find the post, but what is mentioned runs along this same vein.

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Anonymous
Heeeeey! Sorry, I didn't understand something from your post. You meant that we are nearly as skeptical as het fans when it comes to HL because we are scared of being wrong or "tinhating"? Cause like that's true and very interesting. Why does that happen tho bc I just realized I do the same omg

I think it happens because we pushing so hard for others to believe. It is like we feel this wall coming down on us of all this doubt from external sources, wether it is Modest trying to screw with the narrative, or astrosurfers, or anons with hidden agendas. So we believe we need to combat lies with hard hitting proof, and when we do not have that, when the proof is not 1080p HQ picture and video, we second guess and shrug and right it off because we are afraid of being wrong. 

I’ve done it, you’ve done, we all have. But just because it was true in the past, doesn’t mean it needs to continue to be so. I believe they are together and I will continue to be so until I see numerous things that point it to be otherwise, the same way I have numerous reasons as why they are still together. Till then everything else is just icing pointing me to things changing behind the scenes.

If this is the Big Gay War, we need to get our stories straight and strengthen our walls with some fucking energy and belief. If we always come in hesitance, our fortitude has already been stolen. 

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goodladnicelittlebody:

daysundercover:

For all that we say that it would take het fans concrete, “in your face” proof, to believe that Harry and Louis are in a relationship (i.e showing them a picture of Harry blowing Louis), on our side of the fandom we can be just as cynical—if not even more so. Like allofhimisallforhim said, tinhatting has become such an ingrained ugly concept in our fandom, that often times we are afraid of using logical thought to derive a likely conclusion. We shy away from the possibility of being wrong. What are we so afraid of? If we are wrong about one incident, does it dismiss all? What do we really believe? If we are to make it to whichever time Harry an Louis come out, we need to be resolute in what we believe, and trust our instincts in whatever proof is shown to us. At the end of the day most are here to enjoy Harry and Louis’ love, and many are also here to spread inclusion within the fandom as a whole through Rainbow Direction. Lets have some fun, no one is doing this for a living, so lets stop making it a job. Will we be wrong about some incidents? Maybe. However, I’ve seen too much to explain the bigger picture that is Harry and Louis’ love and relationship with one another. 

because the big blogs here shame people. they police thoughts thinking theyre protecting the reputation of the fandom. they think their word is gospel truth.

I agree with you. I’ve seen it happen. I can see where they are coming from, however, the approach often seems to be lacking in presentation. Nevertheless, I will not be censored on my blog, in the place I call my own. And if I happen to be wrong, I’ll look at the overall consensus and adjust if needed, if not we will be adults, and agree to disagree. Unfortunately, not everyone lets go as easily. Like I said, I see where they are coming from, where the other side of the fandom takes things so easily without much analyzing. So we want to be thorough, but in our quest to be thorough we have overlooked the bigger picture we believe. The picture they are so glaringly trying to show us, especially right now. They are in love, they are together, and something is changing for the better. That is enough for me.

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4 hours ago with 1 notes Reblog 
haha i just made some tags about this

You did?! Great minds think alike! I am glad we are trying to distance ourselves from this fandom concept. It is so stressful and that’s not on.

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stylesforstiles:

when you realize this 

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hasn’t changed

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and that its even worse with a baby in the mix

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4 hours ago with 56 notes Reblog 

For all that we say that it would take het fans concrete, “in your face” proof, to believe that Harry and Louis are in a relationship (i.e showing them a picture of Harry blowing Louis), on our side of the fandom we can be just as cynical—if not even more so. Like allofhimisallforhim said, tinhatting has become such an ingrained ugly concept in our fandom, that often times we are afraid of using logical thought to derive a likely conclusion. We shy away from the possibility of being wrong. What are we so afraid of? If we are wrong about one incident, does it dismiss all? What do we really believe? If we are to make it to whichever time Harry an Louis come out, we need to be resolute in what we believe, and trust our instincts in whatever proof is shown to us. At the end of the day most are here to enjoy Harry and Louis’ love, and many are also here to spread inclusion within the fandom as a whole through Rainbow Direction. Lets have some fun, no one is doing this for a living, so lets stop making it a job. Will we be wrong about some incidents? Maybe. However, I’ve seen too much to explain the bigger picture that is Harry and Louis’ love and relationship with one another. 

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"Wake me like coffee,
soothe me like a cup of tea,
you are all my warmth."

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